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Narcissists cannot settle or commit

Narcissists use manipulation tactics to get what they want, and monkey branching is one method they use to maintain their narcissistic supply. They prepare themselves for an optimal exit strategy in case the relationship fails. They never completely surrender to their partner. Subsequently, they cannot fully settle or commit, and no matter how ‘in love’ they might claim to be. They have their eyes peeled on a new person or relationship even when they appear to be committed to you
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