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Narcissists keep a side supply

The warning signs that a narcissist is being unfaithful can be quite blatant, others are less obvious but ALL are very painful.

They may go dark for a few days, they may be spending a lot of time away, which could signal the narcissist has another source of supply that they're romancing behind your back.
 Or, maybe you have found clear evidence of another lover, and have felt that crushing blow to your self-esteem, a blow so hard and devastating that you thought you might never get up off the ground again.

 And if you have tried to end things, you may have been utterly shocked at the narcissist’s sudden, new relationship. While you barely begin to process your breakup, the narcissist moves on without skipping a beat, declaring the new person the love of their LIFE.
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